Empowering Veterans and Military Spouses: A Journey of Resilience and Transformation

Kelly Grivner-Kelly

As a Transition Specialist at Hire Heroes USA, I’ve had the privilege of guiding over 1,000 veterans and military spouses through the daunting process of transitioning from military service to civilian careers. My role is about creating meaningful, lasting change for those who have selflessly served our country. Every success story is a reminder that veterans and their families face unique challenges, but with the right support, they can thrive in the civilian workforce. Their victories ripple outward, not only transforming their own lives but also impacting families, communities, and organizations across the country.

In 2016, my family and I relocated to Raleigh, North Carolina, when my husband, Jon, an active-duty airman at the time, was assigned to the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill’s ROTC program. Leaving behind a job I loved was difficult. At the time, I had just completed my MBA and had accumulated years of experience in my field, which made me confident that finding a new role wouldn’t take long. I thought that with my qualifications, I’d land a new job quickly. However, I soon discovered the reality of job searching, especially as a military spouse. It’s not just about qualifications; it’s about perseverance, resilience, and navigating a system that might not always recognize your unique skills.

After five months of searching with little success, I found myself feeling increasingly disheartened. I remember attending a job fair in a moment of desperation, hoping for any opportunity to break the cycle of rejections. It was there that I first encountered Hire Heroes USA. A representative from the organization explained their services for military spouses, and this moment became a pivotal turning point in my career journey. The support they offered wasn’t just helpful, it was life-changing.

With the guidance of a Transition Specialist from Hire Heroes USA, I received a completely revamped resume, tailored career coaching, and perhaps most importantly, the encouragement I needed to keep pushing forward. This support not only helped me land a job but also inspired me to give back to the community that had made such a difference in my life. Today, I’m honored to work at Hire Heroes USA, where I will soon be approaching my eight-year work anniversary. Every day I get to help other veterans and military spouses navigate their own job search journeys.

What fuels my passion is the firsthand understanding of how difficult job hunting can be, especially for veterans and military spouses. Many of the men and women I work with bring a wealth of skills, experiences, and leadership qualities to the table, but they often struggle to articulate these attributes in a way that resonates with civilian employers. My role is to help them make that translation, aligning their unique talents with career opportunities that both suit them and allow them to thrive.

One of the most rewarding aspects of my work is seeing the long-term impact that a successful transition can have, not just on the individual, but on the organizations they join. I still vividly remember my first client, Isiah, a former Army officer. Like many veterans, Isiah faced the challenge of translating his military experience into civilian terms. The skills he had developed in the Army: strategic operations, leadership, and logistics were incredibly valuable, but they needed to be reframed in a way that civilian employers could understand.

With Hire Heroes USA’s guidance, Isiah secured a position with a major e-commerce company, where his leadership abilities and strategic thinking quickly made him an asset. Not only did he excel in his new role, but he also introduced innovative processes that improved efficiency within his team. His story is just one example of the immense value veterans bring to the workforce. They are adaptable, resourceful, and resilient, qualities that are essential in today’s fast-paced business environment.

The role of a Transition Specialist at Hire Heroes USA is so important because the men and women who serve our country are often not given the tools they need to succeed in the civilian job market. Many service members do not even have a resume when they separate from the military. In my opinion, the military does not adequately prepare them for life after service, which leaves a significant gap that organizations like Hire Heroes USA work tirelessly to fill. We help veterans and military spouses build the skills they need to confidently enter the workforce and we support them throughout their journey.

In 2023, after the birth of our daughter, my husband Jon and I made the difficult decision for him to separate from the Air Force after 11 years of service. We both felt that a more stable life would be better for our growing family. The separation process was stressful, and while I had supported countless veterans through similar experiences in my professional role, it was eye-opening to go through it personally. My experience as a Transition Specialist helped me guide Jon through his job search, but it wasn’t an easy road. He applied to hundreds of jobs, and each rejection was difficult. However, we kept going, knowing that it only takes one company to see the value of his military leadership experience. Eventually, Jon secured a leadership role in a company that recognized his talents, and he’s now thriving in a position he loves.

These success stories both personal and professional are more than milestones. They are a testament to the transformative power of veteran talent. Every veteran I’ve worked with embodies resilience, adaptability, and determination, traits that not only enrich the companies they join but also drive meaningful, positive change within those organizations.

Working with veterans has deeply shaped my own understanding of resilience. It’s not just about enduring challenges; it’s about adapting, growing, and thriving in the face of adversity. Veterans often face numerous hurdles, from learning how to navigate the civilian job market to overcoming personal and professional obstacles. Their stories of perseverance inspire me every day and reinforce the importance of the work we do at Hire Heroes USA.

The fulfillment I gain from this work is beyond measure. Knowing that my efforts contribute to positive, lasting changes in the lives of veterans and their families is incredibly motivating. It pushes me to continue learning, growing, and dedicating myself to the cause. Each success story reaffirms my commitment to helping veterans and military spouses find meaningful careers and achieve their goals. Their successes are proof of the profound value they bring to the civilian workforce. Through resilience, determination, and hope, they create positive ripple effects that extend far beyond their individual careers. These ripples touch families, communities, and organizations across the country, reminding us all of the power of support and the transformative impact one person’s success can have on the world.


As we celebrate 100,000 veteran and military spouse hires, Hire Heroes USA proudly recognizes everyone who made this extraordinary achievement possible. Each hire represents a life changed, a family strengthened, and a future brightened. This milestone is a testament to the dedication of our staff, donors, volunteers, and partners who continue to invest in the success of those who served. We’re not just counting hires—we’re celebrating legacies of service and creating new pathways to success.

Together, we are #100KStrong.